How to Win Friends Learn to listen: Show genuine interest in others and their perspectives. Smile and be approachable: A warm smile and open body language can make you more inviting. Compliment others: Offer sincere compliments to boost their self-esteem and build rapport. Remember names and details: Pay attention to people's names and personal information to show that you care. Be empathetic: Understand and acknowledge others' feelings, even if you don't agree with them. Avoid interrupting: Allow others to finish speaking before you share your thoughts. Ask questions: Show interest in others by asking thoughtful questions about their lives and experiences. Be yourself: Authenticity is key. People can sense when you're being genuine.